I had a small relationship that never really healed for some reason. Recently a good friend asked me out and I turned him down because something in me told me not to. Now I wish I had accepted. Why can't I decide what I want when it comes to love?

Savio's Reply

Dear Confused,
Sort things out in your own mind first. You may have a lot of un-solved problems in your past or just don't understand who you are and what you want in love.

Gavin's Reply

Dear Confused,
you are just a new addition to millions of people who find it difficult to decide in love. you will overcome the confusion soon and love will happen naturally. you will be able to decide what you want. learn to take a few calculated risks.